Lady Laws

I am compelled to teach my sisters to not be ghetto, and ratchet. I want to instill the importance of “Ladyism” into the hearts and souls of my sisters, and teach them not to keep the stereotypical bullshit that other races tend to create about us alive. We have to do better for ourselves sisters. Let’s step our game up. Ladies are never thirsty. Her thirst is always quenched with a tall glass of self respect.

This brings me to the topic that I discussed the other night pertaining to the FB groups that I am a part of. Many nights I log on, and my time line is filled with foolish, and lonely women sending in question after question about the toxic relationships they are in. How can you be with a man who has multiple children with different women, and get upset when he continues to fuck his kids mom? A lady never settles for less. She always strives high because she knows she deserves better.

How can you sleep with a man who never intends to make you his wife? You're only good for a cheap meal at Applebee's, and afterwards a cheap fuck. Then he goes home to his wife like you never existed. Better yet, he's single and he still not that into you. You were just a cheap thrill to him, a strumpet with a fat ass, and a wet pussy. You gave him your all, and looked into his eyes while he's knocking the lining out of your pussy. Days go by, and you never hear from him. Then you start wondering why he hasn't called you back. Why should he? You gave him everything he wanted without question. A lady will not give herself to a man so easy. She will test him, and make him earn his way into her good graces because being with her is a privilege.

Now back to the matter at hand. Ladies, it's not a curse to be single. Being single sometimes can put your mind into perspective. You need to get to know yourself, and love yourself. Sometimes being single can give you so much time to get to know you that you won't want to "look" for love anymore. Before you know it, love will find you when you least expect it.

The Benefits Of Being Single:

                  You have peace of mind

     You have plenty of me time

·         You don't have to explain yourself to anyone

·         You don't have to share your time with anyone unless you want to

·         You're not obligated to anyone but you

·         If you fuck up your life, you have yourself to blame.

·         You can go home, be at peace, and not have to worry about his ass. You can have a good night's rest, and not worry about what's going to happen next with him.

·         All you have to focus on is you, you, you!

Lady Laws:

Ladies I made up these laws myself because every lady should obey them. I see and hear of so many stories of my sistas going through unnecessary bullshit with men. When does it stop?? When will we stop giving these men permission to stomp all over our hearts, and take our kindness for weakness? The time to take control of our hearts is now ladies.

·         A lady will not kiss on the first date. If he insist, kick his ass to the curb.

·         A lady will not have sex with a man on the first date, nor will she have sex with him anytime soon until she is ready. You will have sex with him only if you're truly comfortable, and he has earned it.

·         A lady will not let a man force her, or rush her into a relationship, marriage, or a sexual encounter.

·         A lady will demonstrate common sense when she has sex. She will always insist that he use a condom. If he doesn't have any, she will have her own.

·         A lady will not let a man force her or talk her into having unprotected sex.

·         A lady will not have a child, and not know who her child's father is.

·         A lady should not have multiple children, by multiple men.

·         A lady will know when to let go of a man who does not have her best interest at heart. She will kick his ass to the curb if he disrespects her, and treats her less than she deserves.

·         A lady will not settle for a piece of a man, any man, or another woman's man to avoid being alone.

·         A lady is not afraid to be alone because she knows the difference between being lonely, and being alone.

·         A lady will not love a man more than herself, nor will she loose herself into him.

·         A lady will have a life of her own, and not settle for any man just so she will feel complete.

BONUS******

·         A Lady should always have a plan for herself. She should have her own money. She should be educated, well spoken, and able to create her own path in life. If she meets a man, and he has money, his money should only be an addition to her stash. His money should NOT be the only money she has.He is to compliment her life, not complicate it. A lady should always have her” FUCK YOU” money just in case his ass wants to start acting funny. Never put yourself in a position where you have to depend on him for your every need. HAVE YOUR OWN SHIT!!!!

·         A lady should never beg a man to be with her, nor should she buy his love. If he loves you, he will give his love freely.

·         A lady should NEVER ask a man to marry her. Ladies, it makes you look thirsty when you ask a man to marry you. If he really wants to marry you, he will have no problem getting down on his knee and proposing to you.

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·         A lady should never have face book wars. A lady should never post her sex life, or who she is sleeping with on face book. Or in public for that matter.

·         A lady will never break up a home. If she sleeps with a married man unknowingly, that’s one thing. However, if she is purposely sleeping with a married man just for fun, then she's not a lady. A lady will respect herself, and know her true worth. She will want her own man, not someone else’s.

·         A lady will never sleep with her friends or family member’s man. There are some things that a lady should not do. Accepting sloppy seconds courtesy of your friend or family is not ladylike.

·         A lady should never chase a man. Again quench your thirstiness with a big tall glass of self respect. Let him chase you.

·         A lady will make others feel good about themselves. She will uplift the spirits of others and encourage them. She won’t laugh, and make fun of others to make herself feel better.

·         A lady will teach her daughter how to be a lady, and her son how to treat a lady.